10 Signs You’re Running a Bad Meeting and How to Fix It

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I have sat in more meetings than I can count over the years. Many of those meetings were a complete waste of time. I will even admit, with a bit of hard earned humility, that I have led a few bad meetings myself.

A bad meeting can frustrate your team, kill momentum, and have a detrimental impact on morale. The good news is that recognizing the problem is the first step toward fixing it.

This article will help you identify the ten most common signs of an inefficient meeting and give you clear, actionable ways to conduct effective meetings that your team will actually find productive and maybe even, dare I say it, valuable.

Sign 1: The Meeting Feels Unstructured

The most obvious and yet most common sign of a bad meeting is a complete lack of structure. If your team shows up to a meeting invitation that has a vague title and no description, they are walking in blind. They have no idea what you plan to discuss, what the goal is, or what is expected of them.

You are starting off on the wrong foot, and the meeting is one that will likely meander without purpose. This leads to confusion, wasted time, and a palpable sense of frustration as people try to figure out why they are even there. This is a massive waste of time and company resources.

The Fix:

Create a clear agenda ahead of time. Ensure every meeting has a clear objective. Before you even schedule the meeting, ask yourself:

  • What decision needs to be made here?
  • What problem are we trying to solve?
  • What is the desired outcome of this gathering?

Once you have that clarity, build an agenda around it. List the important topics to be covered and assign a realistic amount of time needed for each. Send this agenda to each participant at least 24 hours in advance so they can come with the necessary preparation and be ready to contribute thoughtfully.

Sign 2: People Visibly Disengage from the Conversation

Take a moment in your next meeting to look around the room or scan the faces on your video call. Are people checking their email on a second monitor? Are they scrolling through their phones under the table? Do you see blank stares and glassy eyes? This is a classic sign that your meeting participants have tuned out.

When people disengage, it is not always because they are rude or lazy. It is often because they do not feel the need to engage. They may believe the meeting does not concern them, that their input is not valued, or that the conversation is simply boring and unproductive.

The Fix:

Actively work to engage your team. As the meeting leader, you are also the facilitator. It is your job to make the meeting interactive. Do not just lecture. Ask direct, open ended questions to a specific attendee.

You might say something like, Sarah, based on your experience with the client, what is your perspective on this? This pulls people back into the conversation. You must create an environment where people feel compelled, and safe, to participate. Use tools like polls or the chat function in virtual meetings to get everyone involved.

Sign 3: One Person Tends to Dominate the Discussion

We all know this person. It could be a senior leader whose opinion carries a lot of weight, or it could just be a very talkative and enthusiastic colleague. When one person’s viewpoint hijacks the entire meeting time, you lose the valuable perspective from the rest of the team. The conversation becomes a monologue instead of a dialogue.

This is a common pitfall that prevents the best idea from surfacing. It can also intimidate quieter team members, making them even less likely to speak up in the future. The team’s collective intelligence is a powerful asset, and you waste it when only one person talks.

The Fix:

A good manager knows how to navigate this delicate situation. Your job is to manage the flow of the conversation. You need to politely interrupt and redirect the conversation without shutting the person down completely.

You can say something like, Thank you for that perspective, John, that is a really important point. I would like to hear what others on the team think about this approach. Or, That is a great idea to explore. Let’s pause on that for a moment and make sure we get everyone’s initial thoughts on the table. Your role is to ensure the speaking time is distributed and to get everyone involved in the dialogue.

Sign 4: The Meeting Feels Unproductive and Ends Without Decisions

You have been talking for the entire 60 minute block of time. The conversation was lively, and many points were made. But when the clock hits the top of the hour and people start dropping off the call, you have a sinking feeling. Nothing has actually been decided. There is no clarity on what happens next.

This type of unproductive meeting is a major source of frustration for employees. It makes the team feel like they have wasted an enormous amount of time that could have been spent on their other tasks. It is a meeting without an outcome, a pure time drain.

The Fix:

Focus on the outcome from the very beginning. Every item on your clear agenda should be designed to move the team toward a decision or to achieve alignment. It is not just about what you will discuss; it is about what you will decide.

Before the meeting ends, you must dedicate time to define the next steps. This is crucial. Go through the decisions made and explicitly state what needs to happen now. Assign owners and deadlines to each item on the to-do list. This creates accountability and ensures that the momentum from the meeting is not lost.

Sign 5: Few People Participate Actively

This sign is subtly different from visible disengagement. In this scenario, the team is listening. They are paying attention, nodding along, but only one or two people are doing all the talking. The silence from the rest of the group can mean many things.

They might be afraid to speak up and challenge an idea, especially if a senior person is in the room. They might not feel it is their place to contribute, or they may simply be processing information and need an explicit invitation to share. This silence is detrimental to good decision-making because you are not getting the full range of viewpoints.

The Fix:

You must actively enable participation. Do not just ask, Does anyone have any questions or comments? That is a low effort question that usually gets low effort responses. Instead, use techniques like a round robin, where you go person by person to get their thoughts on a specific topic.

This is especially crucial for important topics where you need every perspective to make the best decision. You can frame it positively by saying, I want to make sure we hear from everyone on this. Let’s go around the room for a quick take.

Sign 6: The Meeting Goes Off Track

A conversation that veers off track can completely kill productivity. While some tangents can lead to unexpected and valuable insights, most of the time they are a distraction. They prevent you from covering the important points you originally planned to address within the time needed.

If you let every interesting but irrelevant idea derail the meeting, you will never accomplish your clear objective. This can frustrate the team members who came prepared to discuss the agenda items.

The Fix:

Stick to the agenda. A good facilitator is also a good timekeeper. When an off topic point is raised, you need to manage it effectively. Acknowledge the idea’s value so the person feels heard. Then, suggest it be added to a “parking lot,” a list of topics to discuss later.

You could say, That is an interesting point, but it is a bit outside the scope of today’s meeting. Let me add it to our parking lot, and we can either discuss it at the end if we have time or set up a separate asynchronous chat to explore it further. This shows you value the idea but also that you respect the current meeting’s use of time.

Sign 7: The Meeting Is Just a Status Update

This is one of the biggest meeting sins in the modern workplace. If you call a 30 or 60 minute meeting simply to have each person go around and give an update on their work, you are misusing valuable synchronous time.

This is a meeting without a real purpose for collaboration. This information can almost always be shared more efficiently through other means. It is a classic example of an activity that could have been an email, a shared document, or a message in a project management tool.

The Fix:

Avoid status update meetings altogether. Reserve your precious meeting time for tasks that require true dialogue and working together. This includes things like complex problem solving, strategic brainstorming, and debating the pros and cons of a major decision.

For status updates, use shared documents, weekly email threads, or project management software where everyone can post their progress. This asynchronous approach keeps everyone informed without blocking off an hour on everyone’s calendar, freeing up that time for deep work and increasing overall productivity.

Sign 8: The Best Idea Does Not Win Because of Disagreement

Healthy disagreement is a cornerstone of innovation and effective decision-making. If your team always reaches consensus immediately and without any debate, it could be a red flag.

Similarly, if the senior person’s idea is always the one that gets chosen, you are likely suffering from groupthink and missing out on opportunities to make better decisions. A lack of constructive conflict means you are not thoroughly vetting ideas. The goal of a meeting is not to get everyone to agree; the goal is to land on the best idea.

The Fix:

Encourage and model healthy debate. As a leader, you must create an environment of psychological safety where people feel safe to challenge ideas, including your own.

You can foster this by asking questions like, What are the potential risks of this approach? or What is a different way we could look at this problem? Celebrate disagreement as a path to a stronger solution.

Sign 9: The Meeting Ends Without Clear Next Steps

This is a huge and demoralizing sign of a bad meeting. Everyone leaves the meeting room or clicks the “Leave Meeting” button with a different interpretation of what was decided and who is responsible for what. This lack of clarity and alignment will block progress as soon as the meeting is over.

People will either do nothing, because they are unsure what to do, or they will duplicate efforts, working on the same task as someone else. This inefficiency is a direct result of a poorly concluded meeting.

The Fix:

Always reserve the last five to ten minutes of any meeting to summarize and confirm. Do not rush this part. Reiterate the key decisions that were made and explicitly state the next steps. Go through each action item, assign a clear owner to it, and set a deadline.

Say it out loud: Okay, so to recap, Michael will draft the proposal and send it out for review by end of day Friday. This provides the clarity needed to ensure everyone is on the same page. A follow up email or a message with a meeting recording and a summary of the to-do list can also reinforce this and serve as a record.

Sign 10: Your Team Dreads Your Meeting Invitations

This is the ultimate sign you are running a bad meeting. It is the cumulative effect of all the other signs. What is the reaction of your team when a calendar invitation from you pops up in their inbox?

If you hear audible groans, see a collective eye roll, or sense a wave of frustration, you have a culture of inefficient meetings that needs to be fixed urgently. Your meetings have become a source of pain rather than a tool for progress. This has a serious, long term impact on engagement and morale.

The Fix:

Ask for feedback and be prepared to listen. This requires humility. At the end of your next meeting, or in a one on one setting, ask your team how you can make the meeting more effective for them.

You could ask, What is one thing we could change about our team meetings to make them a better use of your time? Listen to their suggestions and, most importantly, act on them. Implementing their ideas will not only improve the meetings themselves but will also improve engagement by showing your team that you respect them and their time.

Conclusion

Effective meetings do not happen by accident. They are the result of thoughtful preparation, active facilitation, and a commitment to respecting everyone’s time. They require a leader who can create a clear agenda, manage a conversation, and drive toward a productive outcome.

By watching for these ten common signs, you can begin to diagnose the problems in your own meetings. You can transform them from a dreaded waste of time into powerful opportunities to bring the team closer together, solve complex problems, and drive real productivity.

Better meetings lead to a better working environment, a more engaged team, and ultimately, better results for your organization. The effort you put into fixing your meetings is one of the best investments you can make as a leader.

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