How to Have More Self-Respect: 10 Life-Changing Tips

How to Have More Self-Respect: 10 Life-Changing Tips

Last Updated on May 25, 2022 by Milton Campbell

Self-respect is one of the best ways to improve your life. When you learn to respect yourself, it can have a positive result on your life and future. Keep reading if you’re interested in learning ways to have more self-respect.

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What is self-respect?

Self-respect, or self-esteem, is the result of treating yourself with love and compassion. It is a feeling of knowing your worth, being comfortable in your skin, and believing that you are important to others. When you have high self-esteem and respect for yourself, you can maintain positive relationships with others and the world around you. If these things aren’t present then it could be an indicator that something needs to change within yourself so that those around can feel respected as well.

What does it mean when someone respects themselves?

When someone values themselves they treat their body well by eating healthy food while staying active so they don’t get sick easily. They don’t waste time on activities that don’t serve them (like watching TV all day) and they stay true to who they truly are regardless of what other people think about them.

Here are some tips for building more self-respect:

Be kind to others.

To show yourself respect, it’s important to be kind to others. Being kind should be a part of your daily routine and not something you do only when you’re feeling generous. It’s easy to forget that some people are struggling but we all are at times. If you can help someone else with their struggles, try to do so without expecting anything in return.

If you see someone struggling through life, offer them a helping hand if you can, or simply just let them know that things will get better soon. This type of compassion may seem like nothing much, but it does make a big difference for both parties involved! If this person is having a hard time, then chances are he/she won’t mind sharing their experiences with someone who genuinely wants to listen.

Don’t tolerate disrespect from others.

Learning to set boundaries is a huge part of having more self-respect. If someone is disrespecting you, you mustn’t tolerate it. If someone says something rude or cruel to you, speak up and let them know that their comments are not okay with you. You can be assertive without being aggressive or passive-aggressive. You should also remember that even though people may try to make you feel guilty for standing up for yourself, this does not mean that what they are doing is acceptable behavior by any means!

Remember, people will often test your boundaries so don’t give in just because someone persists! Just because someone wants something from us doesn’t mean we have to provide it. We all deserve respect!

See Related: How To Handle Disrespect In The Workplace

Accept that you make mistakes.

It’s a fact of life, and it’ll be true whether or not you accept it. Most people would rather think of themselves as perfect, but the truth is that nobody is perfect, and that’s okay! The most important thing to remember about making mistakes is that each one helps you grow and become a stronger person in the end.

You learn from your mistakes, which means they’re not really “mistakes” at all. They’re lessons learned from your experiences. In addition, there are times when we need help from others when we’re struggling with something especially when our pride gets in the way of asking for assistance (hint: this often happens). So don’t feel like making mistakes makes you less than perfect. They show how willing you are to learn and grow!

Accepting responsibility for your actions leads to self-respect because it gives clarity on what kind of person you are deep inside. A person who genuinely cares about what matters most. Being kind towards others even if things don’t go according to plan.

See Related: Every Leader Messes up; 8 Tips to Get Over Mistakes

Treat your body well.

Eat good food. This can be hard to do when you’re busy and stressed, but it’s worth it to take time out of each day for a meal that will nourish your body. Try to make sure that your food is organic and non-GMO. If it’s not possible for you to do 100% organic (maybe for financial reasons or because some foods are just so much better than others), then aim for as much organic as you can afford—even if it’s just one or two things a week that are organic instead of non-GMO.

Get enough sleep every night, according to the National Sleep Foundation recommendations: 7–9 hours per night for adults ages 26–64 years old; 8–10 hours per night for adults aged 65 years old or older; 10–12 hours per night during adolescence (ages 13–18 years); 9–12 hours per night during childhood (ages 0–12 years). If getting eight hours each night sounds like too much, try going to bed an hour earlier than usual until you’ve trained yourself into being able to fall asleep without difficulty at this new time.

Exercise regularly. This doesn’t mean going overboard with intense workouts three times a day! Aiming for 30 minutes of activity most days should be enough. Anything more is beneficial but not necessary.

Don’t engage in self-harm and if necessary seek help from a professional therapist.

See Related: Exercise for Beginners: A Beginners Guide to Working Out

Do things you love.

It’s important to make time for yourself. Too often, we put our own needs last. We leave work early to pick up a sick kid from school or stay late doing an extra project at the office because we think it will impress our boss. The truth is, if you don’t treat yourself well, it’s impossible to be the best version of yourself in other areas of your life. So take some time for yourself! Treat yourself well! You deserve it!

Don’t feel guilty about doing what makes you happy sometimes. Self-respect means respecting your priorities and making sure they’re aligned with who you truly are as a person. Self-respect means knowing what brings joy into your life and pursuing those activities. And if there are things that don’t bring you satisfaction? Let them go, you’ll be happier not doing them!

Give and accept compliments.

When you give a compliment, it can be as simple as saying, “You look great today.” When you accept one, just say “thank you.”

Compliments are not only about looks. They can also be about character and talent. For example:

  • Someone generous might be told how much they help others in need.
  • A person who works hard may want to hear that she is doing an outstanding job at work.
  • A kind person might like to hear how much her kindness makes a difference in the lives of others around her.

There may be times when you don’t accept compliments from others due to thinking you don’t deserve such good things being told about you. Instead, say “thanks” and try to see why the person is complimenting you. They see something in you that you need to start seeing in yourself.

Stop worrying so much about what other people think of you

One of the best ways to have more self-respect is to stop worrying about what other people think of you. It’s not your job to make everyone happy, and it’s certainly not your job to impress them either. So if someone doesn’t like something about you, that’s their problem.

That being said, if it’s something you don’t like about yourself work on changing it. We all have things we don’t like about ourselves, even if we don’t want to admit it. But some of those things are things we can change and some are not. So if there’s something in your life that makes you unhappy, try to figure out why it’s there and what you can do to fix it!

Learn to say no to others

One of the most important things you can do to increase your self-respect is to learn how to say no. Society puts so much pressure on us to please other people and be kind, that we forget our needs and wants. This can make us feel guilty afterward if we don’t live up to this ideal. However, it’s important to remember that saying no doesn’t make you selfish or mean. It makes you a person with boundaries who knows what they want out of life!

  • Don’t feel guilty about saying no! If someone asks for something from you, ask yourself “Will I do this because I want them happy/do I really want this?” If not, then don’t give it. Feel good about standing up for yourself and keeping your happiness in mind first!
  • Don’t over-explain why you’re saying no! Sometimes when people hear “no” they automatically assume there’s an underlying reason. Maybe they’re imagining themselves as being rude or unkind so they ask questions like “Are you mad at me?” or “Did something happen?” Just tell them “No!” Plainly state that there’s nothing else going on before explaining why.

Surround yourself with people that respect you

The best way to have more self-respect is to surround yourself with people who respect you. This can be hard because we often try to change other people, but that’s not going to work. We can’t change other people. However, we can change who we spend time with and how we feel about ourselves by changing our behavior and attitude.

We must understand that if we continue spending time with people who are negative or disrespectful towards us then we will carry that negativity into our lives. If the negativity isn’t coming from your immediate circle of friends and family then it’s still important to think about why someone would treat themselves so poorly?

You might find yourself in an environment where there are lots of negative influences around you but if this is the case then try stepping back from those situations until they become less frequent or stop altogether! You need time away from these toxic individuals because they’re not helping you at all, they’re making your life worse!

Use the power of affirmations to have more self-respect

One of the best ways to improve your self-respect is to use the power of affirmations. Affirmations are positive statements that you can repeat to yourself whenever you feel down about yourself and your life. Writing down affirmations, reading them, and repeating them will help you change your thoughts about yourself from negative to positive.

The key is writing affirmations in the present tense: “I am beautiful,” rather than “I will be beautiful.” The latter may seem more realistic because it refers to a future time when things might change for the better, but when written like this it feels like we’re waiting for something outside ourselves (the actions or approval of others) instead of taking responsibility for our happiness now. Or worse, it comes across as some kind of magic spell that requires external powers to make it true.

See Related: What is the Law of Attraction and How You Can Use It

Take care of yourself and don’t let others treat you badly

Self-respect is a simple concept, but it can be difficult to put into practice. To have self-respect, you must take care of your body and mind by eating well, exercising regularly, having a good hygiene routine, and taking care of your mental health if needed.

You also need to defend yourself against those who would disrespect or abuse you. If someone treats you in a way that makes you uncomfortable or is harmful to your wellbeing in any way at all (even if the person doesn’t realize it), stand up for yourself!

Conclusion

After reading this article, you should now know what self-respect is, why it’s important, how to achieve it and how to build on your achievements. We hope that this was helpful for you in your journey towards better self-respect and a better life!

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Milton Campbell

I'm passionate about personal and professional development. I started Growth Tactics to not only share the knowledge I've gained as a manager and leader but also improve my skills. My vision is to help people be the best versions of themselves. Let's grow together.